Assessment: How to grow and stay confident!


When we are working towards mastery we make mistakes. In order to learn a new skill and improve we have to get uncomfortable i.e. out of our comfort zones.

As we learn and things don't as we would like, Olympic gold medalist, Lanny Bassham says we should only have three answers to the question, "How did it go?".

1.  Awesome

2. Okay

3.  This is where it gets tricky!  The negative voice wants to yell that you sucked!  But that isn't helpful.  Instead, respond, "Needs Work".

You gotta love that!

Now, the key here is if you answered with Okay or Needs work - then what?  Endless and mind numbing recreation of the mistake in your mind?  NO!  All that does is reinforces the mistake or the way you do not want to perform!  

Instead, visualize exactly how you want to perform.  Now that increases the neural path of how you want to perform.  That mental visualization will  create the foundation for the actual performance.


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kindness Apr 28, 2017

What if you could do one thing every day and change the world?  And it would change you too.  


So simple.  So easy.  So POWERFUL.

How will you change the world with your kindness today?


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Drunk Monkeys

Uncategorized Apr 19, 2017

If you have ever had a problem occupy your mind so that it negatively effected your other work, your sleep, your stress and mood - check out this simply yet hugely effective way to change your focus and get your mind monkey focused on what you want to focus on.  

BTW ... RAS = Reticular Activating System :)

I would love to hear what you think.  Let me know how this cool tool works for you.

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5 Ways to Increase your Happiness!


Who couldn't add to their level of Happiness, right?

The Heart Math device I showed in the video is called "Inner Balance" and the cord can be purchased from Heart Math Here and the App on Apple is Free. The Heart Math website contains a wealth of knowledge about Heart math. Information about  heart and the head communication start here.

Just to be clear, I DO NOT have an affiliate relationship with this company. I am simply sharing something I use and love in the spirit of bumping up the world's Happiness. Any other questions, shoot me an email s[email protected], I would love to hear from you.


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How to Create Goals so that you Achieve Greater Success

goal setting Jan 12, 2017

If you have ever struggled with keeping or achieving a goal that you really wanted to reach – you need to WOOP it!  J

WOOP is a goal setting process created by Dr. Gabriele Oettingen and it is AWESOME!

WOOP stands for:

W = Wish or Goal

When you choose a goal, studies show that if it meets or aligns with these 6 factors you have a much greater chance of success:

  • Time frame – choose one that is reachable and challenging
  • Control – It is okay to have a goal that doesn’t put the ability to reach it in your full control (think learning to meditate, lower stress, eat healthy, move more etc.) but consider reframing it so that you so have control.  A promotion at work involves things outside your control. And how can you create a series of goals around preparing yourself to be an attractive promotional candidate?
  • Approach Goal – science shows that we achieve more and enjoy the process more if our goals are towards something (i.e. approach) rather than...
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Eliminate Your Brain Fog!


For an amazing start to your day try this coffee recipe!

This coffee is made with healthy fats - YUM! Want more information about eating healthy fats and how they can be used to help you lose weight, feel amazing and feed your brain!

Here is a link to the BulletProof Diet Book , Mark Sisson's Primal Blueprint and Dr. Mark Hyman's Eat Fat Get Thin. They all provide great information on using healthy fats to boost energy.

Kerry Gold Butter is sold at Trader Joe's and Whole foods markets.

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How to Imbide intelligently

alcohol imbide Jan 09, 2017

How to Imbibe Intelligently and have more FUN!

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Success Check List

goals success Jan 06, 2017

Have a big goal you want to achieve?

Ask yourself this question to align yourself with successful achievement and create Daily Check List:


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